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i love the graph and the insights well told along with the sacasms. It was too long for me to gobble at first but i finished after several bite (thought i’m back to college again reading research paper).

Well done analysis!!! Understood where reality of life is better and appreciate where i am more

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thank you very much for reading :))))

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This is very well put.

I enjoy this blog because I like discussing dating and love. I do have friends like watching Andrew Tate, joining Incels Community, etc. Somehow I think these problems also encourage us to create a more accommodating environment for young men to perform. I know it sounds weird but I do think there are a lot of system problems making young men harder to fit in modern life: no one teaches them to be emotionally mature, and school values behaviors that are seen more in girls. So these confused young men will accept the most absurd ideology that fits.

Besides that, I appreciate the graph of responds and attractiveness. I am now curious to see what queer dating graphs look like as I see some behaviors from both sexes. Like I can assume a gay man would rate attractive similar to how women rate men.

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there're a lot of problems about incels that I think deserve a standalone post; that's not weird at all when we say that many of them come from systematic problems, like social media's design to promote echo chambers. maybe I'll write about it someday, when the time is right?

about the graph, I wonder the same too. but I personally think that gay men would rate another gay man exactly how men rate women, because they first and foremost are men.

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bạn viết hay quá. tuần ra 7 bài nha bạn. mình mong chờ lắm

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mình chết cho bạn xem nha

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🛌

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